I'm so sorry that Grandma has gone, but I am glad that she was peaceful at the end. I wanted to share my most vivid memories of her.
She loved shopping, browsing was half the fun as was splashing out occasionally on something expensive.
She liked going out and about to see what was going on in the world, and enjoyed the countryside and the changing seasons, especially if she spotted daffodils coming out in Spring. Wales was always home and she had so many memories to share about growing up there.
She was a talented knitter, Kate and I both remember our Arran cardigans from when we were little, but later in life she knitted tiny hats, mitts and bootees for premature babies in hospital.
She also had great general knowledge and quick maths skills.
Many of my memories are to do with food though, because she was a brilliant baker and it gave her real pleasure to bake for others. Eating coconut cakes when Grandma and Ron came to visit, still frozen because I couldn't wait any longer to eat them. Dark fruitcake so and jam and cream sponges sent to me at university and devoured by everyone on my corridor that same afternoon. Tins full of mince pies at Christmas.
When I was a young teacher I went round for tea every Wednesday and she would make a meat and two veg dinner with bananas and custard for pudding (even though I was25!).
More recently she and I would escape from her care home to eat fish and chips in the car at the nature reserve, watching all the birds and sometimes getting trapped by swans hustling for food. Sometimes Lola, Rosie and I would take cream cakes round and we'd have afternoon tea. Her favourite was the big elephants foot choux bun!
She often talked about growing up, and all the veg they grew at home and the things they made. Her relative was famous in the village for making the best faggots and people would order them from her. Her own grandma was famous for her ginger beer, which she made and sold from her kitchen, and she explained how the ginger was bashed up and how the yeast was floated on a piece of bread on top of the liquid.
She was formidable, funny and feisty and I loved her.
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