Pamela Mary Palmer (11 Sep 1951 - 3 May 2018)

Funeral Service

Location
Holy Rosary Church Altway Liverpool L10 2LG
Date
17th May 2018
Time
12.15pm

Cremation Details

Location
Thornton CrematoriumLydiate Lane ThorntonLiverpoolL23 1P
Date
17th May 2018
Time
1.20pm

In loving memory of Pamela Mary Palmer who sadly passed away on 3rd May 2018

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I miss you more than words can ever describe. It’s so strange waking up every morning and not getting a phone call. It’s so diffult knowing I can’t hear ur voice again or see you. But I feel you around me all the time. I will always love you nannyxxxxx

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I miss you nanny💔

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Lauren Palmer wrote

I love and miss you so so much. It’s been so difficult without you.. I try not to show that I’m hurting but inside it kills everyday waking up and knowing your not here and not being able to hear your voice or see ur smile and have them hugs it’s horrible nanny. You’ve missed so much Nicoles pregnant.. dad and Tracy are engaged. Your birthday you wansnt here for and my 18th and of course ur beloved husband ,my grandad his 83rd birthday. We all miss you dearly and wish you was here with all of us to celebrate all these things. I hope your having a ball up there and having a cup a tea with your beloved family in heaven. People says it gets easier but it’s jusr got harder and harder knowing your not here anymore. I am trying to be strong nan for everyone here and for you as I no you hated seeing me sad. I made a promise that I wouldn’t Give up on anything and if I’m struggling to talk to someone and I have nan. You always said things get better.. all thought it’s hard to believe right now I’m going to try and believe that as I have all the family here looking out for me and supporting each other every step of the way. Lately I have struggled with my mental health and it took it’s tole on me .. it all hit me at once and I’ve had a rough couple of months and I’m now getting back up there nan I’ve spoke to doctor and dad about my issues and I’m getting there. I’m staying strong for you and family . Although I’ve been struggling what does help me is thinking about all the happy memories and how happy you made me and everyone. You brought a smile to not only my face our families faces but everyone that came in your path. I can’t thank you enough for the tough times and struggles you have got us all through. You have made me smile and laugh when I never thought I would... but thinking about all these things helps my mental state and I no you wouldn’t want to see me this way. Thank you for everything nan for being the best friend, and mum and wife and nan ever. Your beautiful soul will live on in my heart forever and your spirit will live on and I hope you come visit us all.. and I’m sure grandad and Dave would love that we all miss you dearly. I love you I always will forever. My beautiful nan rest in peace my angel in heaven xxxxx

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Well mum it's now been twenty four weeks since the 3rd of May and I'm feeling your loss just as much today as any day since you passed. I will never forget that awful day in Ward 30 when we lost you my wonderful pal, and I suspect that I will never truly recover from it. Your loss has left an enormous chasm and a bitter feeling of emptiness that I cannot shake. You were the focus of my universe and the light of my life and I will always miss you desperately.

I would like to tell you some good news in that Frank is engaged and Nicole is pregnant, two events I know you would have been heavily involved in and supportive of. At least there is a little positive news somewhere my darling, although the fact that you will miss these incredible events is nevertheless saddening. Perhaps you could view them from afar and watch over them as I believe and hope you do to all of us.

Mum I love you more than anything in this world along with dad, Frank and the girls. I miss you so much that it hurts, and every single day your presence is missed tremendously. May you rest in eternal peace and hopefully watch over all of us my lovely pal. You will always have my deepest love and I hope to meet you again one day my sweetheart. Take care and know that you are loved immensely and always will be. Sleep well my angel.

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Lauren Palmer wrote

Really miss you every second of everyday nan. I wish you was here with all of us. It’s so heartbreaking waking
Up realising your not here with us. But I no your in are hearts forever. I love you always ❤️❤️ XXxx

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Happy Birthday mum!

This is your first birthday since we lost you and we all miss you terribly. Not having the chance to buy you a present and a card, seeing the joy upon your face when you realize it's something you enjoy or appreciate. Sharing some cake to celebrate another wonderful year spent with you. All of this we were denied because of your devastating absence.

Mum we all miss you so much it hurts, just as much today as when we lost you on that awful day on the third of May. I can't stand being without you but I have little choice but to persevere anyway. I miss you dreadfully and I wish we could have just one more day with you, but sadly that could never happen. Your absence leaves a gaping hole in all of our lives which nothing can fill - I can only hope that eventually time will heal these horrible wounds, but in the meantime my life is missing that critical something which made it special, namely yourself.

Take care my wonderful mum, God bless you and may you rest in eternal peace. I will forever love and miss you my darling, and will always cherish the time we had together. Happy Birthday once again and sleep well my gorgeous angel. Sweet dreams my pal.

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Lauren Palmer wrote

Happy heavenly birthday nanny. Its your first birthday without having you here with us to celebrate. I hope your having a ball up there celebrateing with all your beloved family. I wish you was here with us. I love you so so much nanny you was the best nan any one could of ever asked for. I love you sleep well nanny. 💔💔💜💜

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I absolutely adore this picture of me and nanny. I love you always nan xxxxxxx

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I miss you nanny so much more than words can describe. My hearts completely broken without you here 💔I love you always nanny xxxxx

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Mum it has been sixteen weeks since we lost you and yet it only seems like yesterday. I remain absolutely devastated by your loss, I still don't know what to do with myself. I think about you every single hour of every single day, I just can't come to terms with such a terrible loss. You still mean so much to me that I can't get over my despair.

Dearest mum, I love you more than anything I could imagine apart from dad, Frank and the girls. You were my pal, my confidant, my whole world really. You were the beating heart of our family and the reason many people even bothered to visit us. Your warmth, kindness, friendliness and caring nature meant that people felt warmed by your company just as we all did. Our house now is just a shell without your wonderful presence.

My darling mum, I hope you are resting in peace, safe in the knowledge that you made a real difference in people's lives. I shall always miss and love you to the moon and back my pal. I hope wherever you are you can enjoy listening to your music and watching your favourite programmes. Take care sweetheart, you will always remain my wonderful mum. Sweet dreams angel.

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Lauren Palmer wrote

I miss you always nan it’s so diffult without you. I hope ur watching over us all xxxxx I love you ❤️

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Found another beautiful photo of us together nan. I miss you terribly xx💔

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  • This is another lovely photo of you and your nan Lolly, well done for posting it sweetheart.

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Lauren Palmer wrote

I miss you so much nan I miss are cuddles and most haunted nights. I’ll never forget you. It’s not the same without you . I love youxxxxx

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Mum I miss you so much, if only we could have you back for five minuets there's so much I could tell you. This doesn't get any easier my darling, your loss is as fresh and impossible to understand today as it was all those weeks ago. I'm still surviving on automation, still mourning your dreadful absence.

May you rest in peace my wonderful mum, my love for you is as unlimited as it is truly timeless and I will always remember your love and devotion to your family and friends. I miss you terribly and life is bereft of anything positive right now. I hope that wherever you are you can enjoy your music and 'Most Haunted' episodes. Take care my lovely pal, you will be in my heart and mind forever.

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  • That’s lovely dave. I hope she’s watching over us all xxx

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  • Me too Lol. Take care sweetheart.

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Lauren Palmer wrote

I miss you so so much nan it’s broke my heart. Every second of everyday I think about you and I wish you was here. I love you with all my heart and always will do. Sweet dreams nanny xxxx

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Lauren Palmer wrote

Miss you always nanny. Lots of love from your lolly😓❤️Xxx

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Miss you always nanny. I love you with all my heart. I listen to your favourite music every day and have a sing along like we used to. I hope u come visit all of us we miss you terribly. Love you nanny xxx

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  • That's a lovely picture and comment Lol, your nan would love that, she was always so proud of you and Coley sweetheart.

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Mum it has been ten weeks since we lost you and it doesn't get any easier to accept or get used to. I still miss you desperately and find it nigh-on impossible to imagine life without your wonderful presence. It turns out you were the beat of my heart and I just can't function the same without you.
Our house is just an empty shell in your absence, you were the life and soul of it, now there's only dad and me to fill this massive space. I know dad misses you just as much as I do, he seems lost without you just as I am. I love you more than words could possibly convey and I miss you so much it hurts. Dearest mum, may you rest in peace and warmth, and perhaps you could visit us once in a while, I'd love to think you are watching over us. Take care my lovely sweetheart, I will always cherish your love, warmth and comfort. Perhaps we'll meet again someday my wonderful pal. In the meantime remember that I love you immensely and without end, exception or limit.

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Missing you so so much nanny. I hope ur having a ball up there. Love you xxx💔

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Lauren Palmer wrote

Hope your ok up there nanny I’m missing you so much. My beautiful angel in heaven. I wish you was here with us but I no you are reunited with your beloved family and you are flying high💔 I love you always nanny forever.

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I miss you so much nan. I really wish I could have cuddles and watch most haunted together again. I hope ur watching over us all nanny. We all miss you terribly. You’ll be forever in my heart. Love u always god bless❤️ Xxx

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2 months today nanny you were taken from us. You gained your wings and flew to heaven . I miss you everyday and I wish I could have a cuddle. I love you forever and always nanny. Sleep well my angel. Xxx

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Me and nanny. Love u always

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  • Thanks for posting this Lolly, it's another lovely picture of you and your nan.

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Miss you so much nan my heart breaks more each day. I miss your cuddles and kisses. I miss our days in watching most haunted and eating biscuits and crisps.. I’m lost without you nanny. You’ll always be in my heart . I love you nan❤️❤️

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  • This is another lovely picture of you and your nan Lauren. If you have any more please post them sweetheart, your nan would approve I'm sure.

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Dearest Mum, I'm missing you terribly. There is a void that is impossible to fill. I find myself lost most of the time. Still in shock I think. Not able to take that next step and move on. I know you are watching over us and you would be saying cheer up son. Time will help heal the scars. Your right of course, you would always give good advice and be there in times of need. I still feel guilty for not being at your side when you passed away. A regret that ways heavy on my heart. I hope you realise just how much you were loved even though I probably didn't say the words as often as I should.
I wrote a poem in your memory. Hope you like it: MOTHER.
Take each day for granted, your always there. A picture on a wall, a memory in a chair. A voice in my ear, a message on the phone. A Sunday roast dinner, a Christmas at home.
A moment for our loved ones, a day to recollect. A time for forgiveness, no reason to resent. A day of celebration, light the candles make a wish. There for one another as a family often is.
Sit and do the crossword, take a break and smoke a cigarette. Gaze out the kitchen window, telling dad it's far too wet. Let's see what's on the telly, let's watch that instead.
How are the girls, how are you She'd say. Every morning when I woke until the evening every day. Always loving and compassionate, understanding and just. Living for her family, no gimmicks no fuss.
Advice and support to us all I shall miss. Her voice and laughter now gone why is this? An absence so vast, her presence her love, our family feels empty, we all need a hug.
Her blanket of warmth, her guidance her trust. Her words softly spoken, we shall all miss her touch. You never asked for anything in return for your love, what I wouldn't give for another day with my mum. Xxxx

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  • That's wonderful Frank, I think mum would be incredibly proud to read your poem. You're spot-on about her, capturing the many reasons we all love her and miss her so much. Thanks for posting this, it's an excellent read and a glorious tribute to our beloved mum who we will always cherish in our hearts and minds.

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